How to Get a Guy to Like You
“How to get a boyfriend” is a common question among the ladies.
So, how do you attract a guy that could be the man of your dreams anyway? Do you need to go all out just to do it? Do you have to go out of your comfort zone and be the aggressive one?
Ah, so many questions. Then again, you have to first find out what the man of your dreams is like.
Do you like the gentleman type who is ready to reach out to the stars and pluck them out of the sky just for you? Are you one of those women who prefer the bad boy type or do you prefer the average Joe?
Here is an overview of the most common different types of men that you can find out there:
1. The Gentleman
The gentleman is what every woman would call the ideal man. He is patient, if you are lucky he’d be very sophisticated with a dash of being flirty, and would surely treat you like the princess you always wish you’d be.
2. The Average Joe
The average Joe is the type that most women gets. This is the reality-based version of the gentleman. These type is all about making you happy and it is what makes them happy, too.
3. The Bad Boy
The bad boy. Some women prefer this type of guy. He is brash, can be quiet, almost always mysterious, and flirty in a way that most women cannot imagine. Most women fantasize that they can turn this bad boy into a good one and make him fall for her for good.
While some bad boys turn out to be really good ones and worth all the effort when tamed, most of them stay as is.
4. The Heartless Pig
This kind is the worst of all because what this type of man does all the time is flirt to the point of cheating. Not one woman ever dreams of falling for a heartless pig, but the problem is, many women end up being with one.
Some women even invest so much of their time to such man only to find out that he is not worth it.
Keep in mind that there are other varieties of men out there, but the four mentioned above are the most common. You can even find men that possesses two or three out of four from the descriptions I have mentioned above.
How to Attract a Guy
Now, regardless of your choice from the most common types of men, we will now focus on how you attract a guy that could be very well be the man of your dreams.
First, keep your dignity no matter what you do. There will be chances that you will end up with a shy guy. If you think that he is worth it, by all means keep the communication running between the two of you.
You can do it without losing your dignity and ending up looking like a stalker. Keep it cool, keep it nice, and please keep your hands to yourself no matter what happens.
Only a heartless pig will appreciate your wandering hands on your first meeting.
Second, grab the chance. If you think that the man in front of you is already “the one”, don’t let him get away. It’s like buying in a pastry shop, one look and you found “that” cake you’ve been looking for since you can remember, but can’t find.
Once you see it, grab it because once you let go of it, you do not know who will grab it, when, and if you are still able to take it back.
Third, just be yourself. Pretense will become obvious soon enough, so don’t bother going through the trouble of looking and acting like a classy supermodel if you aren’t really one.
It will only take so much of your energy and your loved one will eventually notice that your lack of comfort.
Finding the answer on how to get a boyfriend and navigating the relationship landscape can be tricky at times but getting someone to notice you should not be a daunting task. If you adapt a mindset of positive thinking and hopeful determination, talking and interaction with guys should come naturally as long as you behave naturally and exude an aura of authenticity.
Remember that most guys just want to have a normal conversation and drama-less interaction so just be yourself and the guys will follow.