by Brad Browning
Get Him Back by Knowing the Why’s
It’s no question that being rejected can be the worst thing that can ever happen to a person. It’s not that I am exaggerating, but we all know the feeling. It’s like having a toothache — one part hurts and everything else starts hurting too.
Worse, it makes you go back not only once, but about a hundred times to asking yourself what is it that you’ve done wrong to make him leave you.
When it all boils down, the only reason your relationship with your man ended is because the attraction that used to be there before, the kind that strongly pulls you together simply isn’t there anymore. No, don’t try to justify the loss of attraction using simple differences from everyday life.
If this is the kind of problem that bothers you, you can start by not worrying too much because there are ways that can help you get your man back and make him stay for good. Yes, no kidding.
However, as with many things in life, it has one tiny little catch — you have to first find out, understand, and accept what triggered his loss of attraction towards you. Then, and only then, will you be able to finally know what to do next in order for you to get him back.
Now, you must be thinking what am I still doing here and why waste time typing all these words when you can figure out what to do. Remember the saying two heads are better than one. And so, here I am to help you out by giving you ideas and pointers from which you can start brainstorming the reasons and eventually, the solutions.
How to Get Your Ex Back by Changing Your Behavior
Below is a small list of the most common triggers for lovers to lose their interest in the relationship or towards their partners. Knowing and recognizing these from your end is key in ensuring that past mistakes are avoided as you gear towards winning back your ex.
1. You Were Too Controlling
Well, to read those words is already hurtful, but traits like this can really develop while you are in a relationship. It is not necessarily because your partner has cheated on you or that you are simply paranoid. Developing traits like this can also mean too much stress from work or some other environment where you are usually exposed. A trait developed from stress occurs because it can serve as an outlet for you to vent out.
2. Constantly Seeking for Validity
Constantly asking your partner if he or she loves you, if you look good, if you are a good partner, and some other questions that you already know the answer to, but still opts to ask repeatedly for your comfort can push your loved one away from you.
Jealousy has long been a reason for many couples to part ways. It constantly gives a problem to supposedly happily living couple. Being constantly jealous only goes to show the level of one’s insecurity. A partner who is giving his all to you wouldn’t appreciate an insecure partner because for him, it’s as if what he is doing and giving to you aren’t enough to make you feel happy, contented, and secure.
More Relationship Advice
There you go, those are some pointers to help you out. By the way, my name is Brad Browning, but some people call me the “Relationship Geek”. There have been tons of women whom I have helped get back the love of their lives
Just like many of the women whom I have helped before, you must be thinking your relationship right now is completely ruined, but let me tell you that you are so wrong. There is a way to every problem and your relationship isn’t an exception to that rule.
Here, let me make things a lot easier for you. Here is a free video that I made exactly just for you. No more reading, just sit back, relax and listen carefully to the secrets that I am willing to share to help you mend your relationship and put it back to how it once was.