by Brad Browning
Get Her Back by Knowing the Why’s
The question “How to get your ex girlfriend back” is one of the very first of many questions after you lost your girlfriend. Nobody likes the feeling of being broken-hearted, not you and not even me.
It is like a contagious disease that affects not only your heart, but everything else around it. In fact, it even affects your overall function as a person so this questions is nothing but natural in these circumstances.
If you are still wondering as to why your girl just fell out of love for you, you do not need to think of many other reason, big or small. That is because there is only one reason to your problem: she simply fell out of love for you because the attraction that sparked everything from the start isn’t there anymore.
Then again, don’t act as if it is already the end of the world. As with any other problem, there is a solution to the current heartache you are experiencing. Now, when it comes to finding out who is to blame, it can be you, it can be stress, work, social life or whatever environment you have there. In fact everything in your life can affect the attraction between you and your lover that holds you together like a glue.
What you have to do is first find out who are likely to be responsible for the reasons that triggered your lover’s lost if interest. However, you have to understand that it takes two, and even more, to tango. So, if you think it is your fault, there is a high chance that it is not entirely your fault, but you are a contributor for what is currently happening. You have to understand and forgive yourself first before you move on to the next step.
How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back by Changing Your Behavior
After that, you need to know the things that anyone in a relationship are prone to commit. Try your best to be honest to yourself and admit the things you have done that you can find in the list below.
1. Too Much Control
Remember, you can never force a butterfly to stay with you. If it likes to be with you, you have to be mature enough to understand that you can never control it. Pretty much the same rule applies to a relationship. Understand that there is only so much that you can control in a relationship.
Never, ever attempt to control just about every fiber of your relationship with your lover or you are in for a problem resulting to break up.
2. Excessive Validation
Understand that when a partner of yours, whom you have been staying with for years, told you you are great and that he or she trusts and love you, they usually mean it. Give your partner the benefit of the doubt unless he or she has already done something to you that is worth doubting.
Try your best not to repeatedly validate her love for you, her trust, and many other things. Remember, when a woman gives you something, she means it.
Last, but not the least is jealousy. This attitude has ruined more than a handful of relationships already, so you should know by now that jealousy is something that you should learn to avoid.
Learn to leave “okay and good enough” alone and stop looking for things and people that would trigger unnecessary jealousy from you. You do not need to be jealous of her friends, and even family. S
he has a life outside of your relationship too, you know. In fact, why don’t you remind yourself the life that you have with your parents, siblings, and friends and remind yourself that your partner is just as human as you? That might just help get rid of your jealousy.
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So, where did I get all these ideas? My name is Brad Browning. Some people call me the “Relationship Geek”. Yes, this is what I do. I help men from around the globe to restore the bliss in their relationships and let them have their happily ever after.
If you want to go through the shorter route, you can check out this quick video I made just for you. Let me share to you the secrets pf how you can get your girlfriend back and make her stay with you for good.