Look for Signs He Loves You
If you think mind reading will help you while in a relationship, you are getting your hopes up too high. As far as reality goes, there is no such thing as mind reading. Thorough observation cam be considered, but never mind reading.
So if you are really concerned and eager to find out if your boyfriend really loves you, you have to first take mind reading and other fantasies off your head. Focus on the reality.
I am not trying to burst your bubble or anything, but focusing on reality will help you distinguish all the signals your boyfriend is spewing, whether good or bad. Focusing on the reality will help you see what you didn’t see before.
I understand, reality can be really harsh most of the time. It can give you lies while staring you in the face as it smiles, people can say they love you when they do not really mean it deep inside. Then again, that is why we are focusing.
If you really want to find out if he really loves you, focus and observe on his actions and not on what he says. Yes, actions aren’t foolproof as well, but they are far more reliable than words.
How Do You Know if He Loves You
Every person has his or her different methods of showing his or her emotions. There are some who might seem exaggerated and some who have what you would call poker-faced.
You have to observe how your boyfriend shows his love for people around him. Is he very vocal about it? Is he showy, a little too private or even a little of both? Is he touchy or he shows it all through caring for you to the point of scolding you whenever you get sick?
Does he care for even your small achievements and the little things that make you smile?
These things may not seem so much for you, but you have to open your mind and your eyes to what your boyfriend does for you. Always remember, your way of showing love may not be the method he uses to show his love for you
Telling You He Loves You
So, he told you he loves you. Unless you have known the guy for years and have shown his weakness and pure love for you, be on the lookout. It can be really mean for me to say not to trust him right away, but if you are a new couple, you might want to protect yourself first.
Look at the signs of him telling the truth. Is he looking you straight in the eye as he says those words? Are his nose twitching while saying this? Are his hands wandering somewhere else or are shoved in his pockets?
Because if he can’t look you in the eyes, his nose is twitching or his hands are in his pockets or wandering, chances are he isn’t telling the truth. What I just mentioned are the most common “tells” of people when lying.
Does he really care for you? You would know that he genuinely cares for you through consistence. Inconsistency is a sign that you should protect yourself more.
His Response When Asked
Have you tried asking your man if he loves you? What was his reaction? Does he ever get angry or shy? Was he ever defensive while answering your question? Does he hug you as he says it?
These little things, no matter how small, means and says so much about how he really feels for you.
So, the next time you start wondering how he really feels, watch his actions and movements and you will do just fine.